My Blind Spot

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cialis durata Recently we’ve been helping people through some tough life situations and changes, both professionally and personally. What we’ve learned is that most of the time, we experience tough spots because of the consequences of our own decisions. And more importantly, we can improve the situation by simply making a different decision. In other words, we live our lives in a setup that we made many years ago by choices we made back then. Or perhaps no decision was made, but life just happened that way and we went along with it. This setup is so engrained that it’s hard to imagine living differently, even if the payoff is a life that is massively better.

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follow Zig Ziglar used to open his seminars with a question for the audience, “Is there something you can do to make your life worse today?” And of course we could all think of things that would make life worse like snapping at your spouse, losing your money gambling, or speeding and getting a ticket. Then he would ask, “Is there something you could do to make your life better today?” Because if the first statement was true, then the opposite must also be true. And yet, it’s easier to answer the first question than the second. I can easily think of little things to make my life better like having an ice cream cone on the way home, but what about big choices I could make that would make a major difference in how I live my life today or down the road? When it comes to thinking about how my life could be massively better, I usually have a blind spot.

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source url Well, the good news is that they didn’t see anything obvious, but that’s not the point. The point is first ask yourselves if you could be living a better life simply by changing some things around, and second, ask someone else. An outside third party could point out things that are not obvious to those caught up in the day to day business of managing life.

get link We are volunteering to be that third party for you or any of your friends or family. As always, there is never any cost or obligation. At this stage of our lives we just want to help. If there are some real estate changes that we can help with, that’s great, but if we can just make someone’s life easier then that is reward enough.